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Men Without Children in History: Part 2

Men Without Children in History: Part 2

by Laura LaVoie, 2015 Childfree Woman of the Year

Following from my Part 1 of Men Without Children in History, here are a few more amazing men in history who didn’t have children. Like the others I have written about, while it is nearly impossible to tell if these men were NotDads by choice, it is an interesting look into the minds that developed our modern world.

  • freddie-mercuryFreddie Mercury. While some of Mercury’s Rock n’ Roll peers are still having children – we’re looking at you, Mick Jagger – Freddie Mercury rejected the father paradigm. Many people may assume it was because he was a bisexual man in the 70s or because he died way too soon from AIDS complications. But there may have been more to it than that. Mercury was quoted as saying, “If I wanted children I’d just go to Harrods and buy one. They sell anything there. Buy two and you get a nanny thrown in!” And, “I’d love to have a baby, yes. But I’d rather have another cat.” In any case, his contribution to music was immeasurable.
  • Edgar Allan Poe (above). One of America’s earliest great authors, Poe, is credited with creating the classic detective story as well as helping the new genre of Science Fiction grow. He was also one of the first authors to make a living solely from his writing, which resulted in many personal and financial difficulties. It may have been his marriage to a 13-year-old cousin who died at age 20 that influenced Poe’s life without children. Some of his most famous works have been attributed to his dark depression and erratic behavior after her death. Though he eventually struck up a relationship with an old flame, he never married again and had no children. Poe died at the age of forty.
  • teslaNikola Tesla. This inventor has had a hard, posthumous road toward recognition. Another NotDad, Matthew Inman of The Oatmeal, has helped bring Tesla’s story to light in the last few years by publishing comics on his contributions to science and raising money to buy his estate and turn it into a museum. Tesla himself never married and never had children, instead apparently choosing to focus on his research.
  • wolfeThomas Wolfe. I live in the Appalachian town of Asheville, North Carolina. Over the last few years it has become a popular tourist destination for our creative culture, epic nature, and craft beer scene. But I would be remiss if I didn’t include one of our most famous residents from history in this list of NotDads. Thomas Wolfe, author of Look Homeward Angel and You Can’t Go Home Again, is considered a key contributor to North Carolina’s literary scene. Visitors can still tour his mother’s boarding house in the heart of downtown Asheville. Though little consideration is given to Wolfe’s personal life, he died at the age of 38 having never marrying nor having children. But his legacy lives on, like so many men without children in history.

What NotDads of history have inspired you?

*Laura M. LaVoie is a writer, and the 2015 Childfree Woman of the Year.

3 thoughts on “Men Without Children in History: Part 2

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      On the last NOKID cruise I hosted with Laura Scott on board, we heard from many men. They suggested we needed more men to speak out in the childfree movement. Men get the same nonsense women do about not having kids. In business they’re perceived as not needing more income as men having kids! Some perceive them as immature or selfish. Thanks for this article.

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        Yet more men than women now say they want kids. And why not? They get all the benefits and none of the responsibilities. They don’t have to destroy their bodies and aren’t expected to do the work. They get paid more. There is no real downside for men to have kids. They get the Kodak moments the women get the ruined body and all of the shitwork. If they change a single diaper they get the Medal of Honor. And they feel justified in cheating because their wives lost their figures and aren’t interested in sex anymore, so they go out and complain about ‘the bitch’ and seek out childfree women.

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      Alan Rickman never had kids. His lifelong companion, Rima Horton, didn’t want them and he respected that.

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